Rely On Yourself, Not Others

Are you one of those people who are waiting for someone else to give them a chance? If your boss just noticed you… if that cute girl over there would just come over to your table and talk to you… if that teacher just gave you an A at the test… THEN you would succeed.

The simple truth is: You can´t rely on others if you want to be rich and successful.

If you want something you have to get up and take it. That´s what superheroes do; they don´t wait until someone else gives it to them. They just take it.

Waiting for someone to notice you is a waste of time. Time you could spend learning something new, practicing your skills and getting closer to your goals.

As long as you rely on others to get you what you want you will never surpass others. There will always be someone you are waiting for. And what would you do if this other person never ever notices you? You would have to give up.

That is a foolproof way to set yourself up to failure.

Superheroes never rely on getting permission, a second chance or anything from others. They depend on themselves to reach their goals and achieve happiness.

Society has taught you to rely on your friends or your partner for happiness. And if they don´t take care of your happiness you can still achieve momentary happiness by buying things you don´t really need. But none of that comes from within. It will not last and it will not satisfy you.

Happiness is a choice. It´s tied to your mindset and your mindset is under your control. You don´t have to wait for others to make you happy, you can just make yourself happy. It takes courage to go against what you have been taught for decades but it will set you free.

Complete control over your mind is true freedom. As long as you rely on others you can not be free, nor successful.

The skillset you acquire for yourself will always be there, even if everyone else on this entire planet will turn their back on you. Your own mind is what you will be able to rely on for the rest of your life.

Remember that your life and your happiness is only your own priority. Everyone else on this world doesn´t think of you as a priority. The only person you can rely on is yourself.

Because humans are social animals the thought of being alone scares us. But if you ever only rely on yourself for comfort, success and happiness being alone loses its horror. All you need is inside your mind, fellow superhero. Take good care of it.

Author: modernsuperhero

A superhero never quits!

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