An Outsider is someone is not overly emotionally invested. They watch from the outside to gain a more objective view instead of taking a fixed standpoint. They do not limit themselves by believing in one truth but take different standpoints into consideration. Their emotions have no power over them because they rule their reality with their minds. They take full control of their lives.
Emotions are powerful. They can mean motivation or destruction and failure. Sometimes they lead to bad decisions or inflexibility. At best, they can be an indicator if you have made the right choice but choices based on emotions alone are usually bad choices.
If you decide what path to take the decision should always be based on logic and thought, not on something like emotions that change every second. Emotions are like clouds: they drift by and sometimes they produce some rain but the effect is not lasting. Powerful, yes, but not sustainable.
The power of the outsiders lies within their ability to detach themselves from their emotions. The mind controls their actions, emotions are just a byproduct.
Once you stop viewing the world through emotions everything will make sense to you. You will come to realize that your mind is the only thing holding you back, that you are capable of anything. You will start to focus on what you CAN do, not what you think you CAN`T do. You will realize that there is only one truth in your reality, but this truth will look different for different people.
You need to understand that the way you think is unique. No one else thinks like you and that´s why there can not be one single truth for everyone.
Before I realized that my truth was not everyone´s truth I was a radical feminist. I strongly believed that oppression from outside was holding me back from success. Everyday was painted with rage about how unfair society was. But when I became an outsider and was open to listen to different truths I understood that it was only my own mind holding me back, not some outward factors.
The only reality that exists for you is the one in your mind. If you believe that life is bad it will be bad. If you believe that life is full of opportunities it will be. Don´t listen to your emotions screaming that this is the end of the world. It is not. Don´t believe your feelings telling you that this is the best day of your life. Everyday is just as good as you want it to be. Emotions are temporary, your mind is forever.
Becoming an outsider may take months to accomplish, or just seconds. If you are reading this you are on the right path. The realization that you are responsible for everything that happens to you may come to you over the course of weeks while you think about life.
Stop listening to your emotions and start thinking actively. You will notice that you can influence your life and your reality just by the power of your thoughts. That´s when you have become an outsider who took full control over their life.
Remember that emotions are powerful but your thoughts are even mightier. If you can control your thoughts you can control your reality. But it will always be only your own reality; you can never gain full control over someone else´s reality.
Stay strong, fellow superhero, and never let emotions control your life when it could be your mind that takes control.