Have you ever dreamed of entering a room and everyone inside immediately treats you with the respect of a real leader? Most men have if they have at least small ambitions to get anywhere in their lives.
A dominant man is often perceived as more attractive by females. He gets respected by his fellow males.
But how do you show dominance?
#1 Do Not Back Down
If you voice your opinion do not change your mind once someone disagrees with you. You will never be able to be liked by everyone. Only a weak person changes his mind whenever he is faced with consequences.
Same goes for decisions you make. You want to be able to do 30 pull ups? You better believe a dominant man will stick to that goal until he accomplishes it.
Unbreakable will and discipline will motivate others to follow you, making you the natural leader of the group. But it is of utmost importance that you actually do what you promise you would do. Even if you only promise it to yourself.
You should not promise to do something just for someone else. Only do what YOU want to do. The opinions of other people should not influence you.
Seeking approval is a sign of weakness and unworthy of a true leader.
#2 Do Not Speak Badly About Others
A true leader doesn´t feel the need to talk about the failure of others. You can not be dominant if you only point out mistakes of others. You need to accomplish something yourself, not drag others down to make yourself feel better.
Do not blame others for making mistakes. If those mistakes somehow affect your own life, try to find a solution instead of talking about the problem. Complaining will get you nowhere.
Always remember that the next time you will make a mistake (and you will because even superheroes make mistakes) all the people you made fun of will crawl out of their holes to drag you down.
But if you encourage people who are struggling they are more likely to help you out in the future.
#3 If You Can Control It, Control It
Most people nowadays are so brainwashed by so called “teamwork” that they fear making decisions on their own. That´s pathetic. Every team needs a leader or it will work not very effectively.
If you are faced with a difficult situation where everyone else would rather do nothing than do anything wrong, make a decision for the group and follow through (see #1).
Most people don´t have the balls to decide on their own so they will gladly follow anyone who makes a decision for them. Plus, women swoon for a guy that can take control.
It doesn´t have to be a life altering decision. Just deciding the restaurant you and your girlfriend will have dinner at is a form of taking control. Never say you don´t know if you are faced with a situation where a decision has to be made. Make a decision no matter what.
Even if the decision turns out to be a bad one, at least you had the guts to actually do something rather than just wait for someone else do decide over your life.
Take the blame for the decision if appropriate. Even major fuck ups will be forgotten in the near future because people only care about themselves.
#4 Stay Calm, Cool And Collected
Do not let other people drag you down to their level. Constant competition is not only exhausting, it also makes you look insecure.
Just answer to provocations with “Okay.” I promise you, it will save you a lot of time and hassle.
Outer circumstances should not affect your mind. Set a goal and stick to it. If you don´t want to give up gym time to go drinking just say no. You are not required to be nice to people wasting your time.
It is your life, live it on your terms. If the circumstances change you do not change. If something goes wrong you do not get discouraged, you just keep going. You are a rock, the world is the see trying to change you but you do not change.
#5 Make Eye Contact
This is self explanatory. Eye contact enforces dominance. Do not stare, you are allowed to blink. But do not turn away if someone looks you straight in the eye.